Mastering the touch of the female clitoris: a. Where can I find the clitoris? -To find the clitoris, peel apart the labia minora, the small lips, with the tip of your finger and slide it upward until you reach the little pink bump of flesh in the front. If you are in front of her, you can find it where all the whorls and folds of skin come together at the top of the vagina. The clitoris is about the size of the tip of your little finger. This is the most erotically sensitive spot in a woman's body. b. How is the clitoris similar to my penis? -The clitoris is the exact equivalent to the penis, even though it is a lot smaller. In the early stages of fetal development, a penis develops in the male from the same tissue that develops into a clitoris in the female. Like the penis, the clitoris has many blood vessels and it becomes erect during sexual excitement. Because it is so small and a man generally doesn't realize how great it is for a woman when he touches her there. Imagine the clitoris like the entire head of your penis shrunk down to an area smaller than a pea. Unlike the penis, it does not carry urine; its sole purpose is receiving pleasure. c. What else should I know about the clitoris? - The clitoris is very sensitive and requires a little flap of skin, like a hood, to protect it. This is also highly sensitive. The friction alone from this flap of skin is what precipitatesmost female orgasms. -One side of the clitoris is normally more sensitive than the other. If she doesn't know which, you may need to experiment. - When a woman becomes aroused, the clitoris becomes erect or engorged. The more erect it is the more it craves to be touched. Once your partner is very excited, keep a steady movement or pattern and you will assist her in reaching even higher levels of pleasure.